I still have a really hard time reconciling the “good Penn” (this one) with the “bad Penn” (the condescending, small-minded prick on Bullshit!).
.-= tgirsch´s last blog ..Weather Is Not Climate, Humor Edition =-.

Penn then recounts his attempts to relate to his parents in their last days – his father slowly going deaf and blind, and his mother in pain and partially paralyzed – as they dealt with their illnesses and gradually lost their memories and personalities. It is obviously a very moving memory for him, and a time in which the advice he quotes played an important role in helping him handle the situation.

“I would try not to remember all the time I spent with [my mother], and how vivacious and how strong she was . . . . I tried not to talk about that. I tried to get to know a really smart, really sad woman – a suffering woman, who couldn’t move her arms. I tried to get to know that woman and love her as much as I loved her younger form of herself. I tried to [get to know] a strong, powerful dad that I had, who was a jail guard and deputy sheriff. I tried to love him as a sweet, blind, mostly deaf, suffering old man who was still so, so happy, and loved me so much.”

“So if you have parents or loved ones who are suffering, and who have changed – the advice David Greenberger gave to me, that I pass on to you, is try very hard not to mourn for who they were, but try to learn to love them for who they are. Because you’ll have plenty of time to mourn later. Believe me.”

Maybe a transcript? Or summary?